For a healthy relation

I was again browsing through the net and I found this

10 Ways To A Healthy Relationship
1. Don't nag!
2. Resolve arguments quickly... and REALLY resolve them!
3. Forgive and truly forget.
4. Don't bring up past problems when addressing a new one.
5. Constantly remind your love of how much you love them.
6. Never lose your respect for your partner.
7. Even though you are a couple, never lose your self-identity.
8. Schedule and never break a weekly date with your partner. Even if the date involves staying home.
9. Don't lie or be unfaithful to your partner.
10. Make it a point to say and show that you love your partner every day!

4 Rules To Love By

1. Never disparage your partner.

I find most people in relationships are usually looking to return to "that feeling" you have when you first fall in love. From my personal experience, the loss of this feeling comes from each partner losing the respect they had for the other when they first met. Remember your love will NOT be perfect, but that doesn't mean they don't deserve your respect and love. Don't try to make your partner "better." You loved them exactly the way they were when you first met them. Don't let time change that.

2. Never let your partner disparage you.

Personal integrity is valuable asset. Lose that and you lose your identity as a being. Everyone deserves to be treated with value and love. If you have a partner who doesn't respect you, talk to them about it. Let them know how you feel. If it's not something they are willing to change... find someone else. It may not seem like it now but you'll be happier in the long run.

3. Keep your romance alive.

Contrary to popular opinion, romance doesn't just exist. After some period of time you do have to put in effort to keep it alive. It doesn't have to be much. In fact, the most romantic people I know just take the time to do the little things to make their partner feel special. Make a commitment to do something romantic at least every day. Remember, even taking the time to really listen to how your partner's day went can be considered romantic!

4. Always be honest.

Nothing can damage a relationship more than dishonesty, even white lies. In every case, honesty is the best policy. This also means... don't put yourself in situations you feel the need to lie about. Relationships are built on trust. Once broken it's very difficult to rebuild. Avoid, at any cost, falling into this trap.

Alms to be offered tomorrow

Oh noo..Can't online till too late tonight :( cause mom said tomorrow we must reach Bukit Jalil by 7.30 a.m.. And if dad doesn't come home tonight means we must take bus and that also mean I have to wake up around 5 a.m. to get ready. On a Sunday *phew*. Anyway, we're going there because there will be 1000 monks there and alm is offered. To get blessing as well..hmm..

Results

The results for The Most Natural competition is out today and I'm in the top 10. Feeling very greatful. A special thanks to my family members, friends, and people out there who voted for me. Thank you so so much :D I'll be going for the make-over and photoshoot next Thursday, September 11th and our new pictures will be uploaded on the 16th of September so guys, I need you to vote for me again once it's uploaded to be in the top 5 :P

http://themostnatural.com.my/

To Acap, thanks for praying for boyfriend and I..really appreciated it. About your pizza, I'll discuss with him later to see how..haha.. At the mean time, no promises :D

Money is quite often not enough ^-^

Yesterday after Business Mathematics class we were free cause meeting was cancelled. So Mun Ya suggested we go watch movie then I asked what movie? She said 'Money No Enough 2'. So I called boyfriend along and we sat separately. The movie was so touching that boyfriend and I cried. Dyamnn! -.-" Then at night when I online I asked Mun Ya how was it. She said she felt uncomfortable and like hard to breathe. The main point is not that. She told me the TWO HUMAN beside her also got teary eyes and it's Jon and Ivan. Like OMG! They cry. wakakaka. It's a good movie and quite true in reality. Treasure people around you before it's too late. :D

Pics with the ginger breadman

The pics will do the talking this time

I'm so full..

This morning went to Taman Bukit Maluri for dim sum at Tuck Kee Restaurant. Again it's full. Dyammnn. This is what happen during holidays. Anyway, got our seats fast again. I didn't eat much but so fast so full. Don't know is it cause eat too fast..hmm..It come up to about RM50++

We live to eat right?

I have been eating a lot lately. Went to Lala Chong near Subang Terminal to eat seafood. There was lots of people there I tell you. Basically it was full and until 9 p.m. there is still people coming and waiting for empty tables to be seated. I would say we were lucky la. Reached slightly after 8 and got a place after we waited for about 5 minutes. Oh, saw Alwin Yeow, Mindy, and some people with them. Then my sis waved. I was looking at Alwin and he looked at me. The expression on his face is like *So familiar one? Who's that?*. LOL! Then aunt and mom ordered food. Waited for about half an hour and our first dish arrived on the table. It was something like sharkfin soup but it's not. Inside was chopped seafood and some kind of vege that looks like cucumber but cut into really small pieces. Second scoop into my mouth and I burnt my tongue. Stupid me. Grr. Then came the "guai tao miu", lala, prawns, fried "tung fun", and last the crabby :D We were sitting beside the place where the fishes was and they catch fresh fishes for customers. It wasn't easy to catch any of it..hmm

I took 30 minuntes to finish JUST ONE crabby. By the time I'm done I feel like sleeping. LOL! My sis feel the same too and we just thought of our cute cousin Sebby from Germany. He actually eat till he fall asleep. So cute. And this is him :D

Sebastian Benedict